Mindful Eating: Slowing Down at Mealtimes

Eating in front of a screen, on the go or in a hurry? Gentle ways to slow down at mealtimes and actually taste your food again.

5/18/20275 min read

How many of your meals this week did you eat at a desk, in the car, standing up or scrolling your phone?

For many of us, eating has become something we do while doing something else. We finish a plate and barely remember it. Mindful eating is a gentle invitation to slow down and pay attention, so that mealtimes become a small pause in the day instead of another task.

It isn't a diet, and there are no rules about what to eat. It's simply about how you eat.

Start with one meal

You don't need to change every meal. Choose one a day, or even one a week, to eat more slowly and with attention. Breakfast or a weekend lunch often works well.

Before you eat

Pause. Before the first bite, take one slow breath. Look at your food: its colours, shapes, the steam rising from it.

Notice your hunger. Are you very hungry, a little hungry, or eating because it's time? There's no right answer. Just notice.

Take a moment of thanks. Some people like to think briefly about where their food came from: the farmers, the cooks, the sun and rain. It's a lovely way to begin.

While you eat

Put away screens. Turn off the TV and put your phone in another room if you can. Let the meal be the main event.

Take smaller bites. And put your fork down between them. It naturally slows the pace.

Taste properly. Notice flavours, textures and temperature. Is it sweet, salty, crunchy, soft? Does the taste change as you chew?

Chew slowly. There's no hurry. Let each mouthful be fully enjoyed before the next.

Listen to your body

Eating slowly gives you time to notice how you feel. Halfway through, pause and check in. Are you still hungry? Comfortably satisfied? Many people find they feel content sooner when they eat more slowly.

Share it

Mindful eating doesn't have to be silent or solitary. A slow meal with family or friends, with real conversation and no phones, is mindful eating too.

Be kind about it

Some days you'll eat lunch at your desk in five minutes, and that's fine. Mindful eating is a practice, not a test. Any meal eaten a little more slowly is a win.

If you have a difficult relationship with food or eating, please speak to a doctor or a qualified professional, who can offer the right support.

A calm background for slow meals

Our two-hour video Be Present, with golden mountains reflected in a still lake, makes a peaceful background for a slow breakfast or quiet dinner:

▶ Watch Be Present on YouTube

In closing

Pause before you eat, put away screens, take smaller bites and really taste your food. One slow meal at a time, eating becomes a small daily moment of calm.

For more on living in the moment, read Be Present: Small Ways to Live in the Moment.

Ethnoscape Media shares content for relaxation, inspiration and general information. It is not medical or psychological advice. Please talk to a qualified professional about your health.