Ebb & Flow: Living with the Natural Rhythm of Your Energy
Your energy rises and falls like the tide. How to notice your natural rhythm and work with it, not against it, with two hours of twilight lake music.
The sea doesn't stay at high tide all day. It comes in, and it goes out. Nobody thinks the low tide has failed.
Our energy works in a similar way. There are times of the day, the month and the year when we feel full of energy, and times when we feel slow and quiet. Yet many of us expect ourselves to be "on" all the time, and feel guilty when we're not.
Learning your own ebb and flow can make life feel calmer and kinder.
Your daily tide
Most people notice natural highs and lows across the day. For example:
- Some people feel sharpest in the morning; others warm up slowly.
- Many of us feel a dip in the early afternoon.
- Evenings can bring a second wind, or a deep need to rest.
None of these patterns is right or wrong. They're simply yours.
How to find your rhythm
For one or two weeks, check in with yourself a few times a day. Ask: How is my energy right now, on a scale of one to five?
You can jot it down in a notebook or on your phone. After a while, patterns usually appear. You might notice that you're focused at ten in the morning, flat at three in the afternoon, and restless at nine at night.
Working with the flow
When you know your rhythm, you can plan around it where possible:
- High tide: do the tasks that need the most focus or creativity.
- Turning tide: do simple, routine jobs: emails, tidying, errands.
- Low tide: rest, walk, stretch, or do something gentle.
Not everyone can choose their schedule. But even small changes, like saving your hardest task for your best hour, can help.
Honour the low tide
Low energy isn't laziness. It's part of a natural cycle. When you feel low:
- Take a short break instead of pushing through.
- Step outside for fresh air and daylight.
- Drink some water and eat something nourishing.
- Lower your expectations for the next hour.
Often, the tide turns again if you let it.
Bigger rhythms
Energy also moves in longer cycles. Many people feel slower in winter and livelier in spring and summer. Life events, stress, illness and hormones can all change our rhythm too. Be patient with yourself through these changes.
Rest with the evening tide
Our new two-hour video Ebb & Flow shows smooth stones resting in a calm lake at twilight, with soft music for sleep and winding down:
Let it play as the evening tide comes in, and allow your own energy to settle.
When energy is always low
If you feel exhausted most of the time, or your energy has changed a lot without a clear reason, please talk to your doctor. It's worth checking.
In closing
You're not meant to be at high tide all the time. Notice your rhythm, work with it where you can, and let the low tides be times of rest. Like the sea, you'll rise again.
You might also like Ocean Sounds and the Rhythm of the Breath.
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