Autumn Begins: Welcoming the Darker Evenings

The autumn equinox marks the start of longer nights. Gentle ways to welcome darker evenings and make autumn a season of cosiness and rest.

9/21/20275 min read

Around 22 or 23 September each year, we reach the autumn equinox. Day and night are almost equal in length. From here, in the northern half of the world, the nights grow longer than the days.

For many people, darker evenings bring mixed feelings. We miss the long summer light. But autumn has its own gifts: cosiness, warmth, slower evenings and a natural invitation to rest.

Here are some gentle ways to welcome the darker season.

Embrace the cosiness

Autumn is the perfect time to make your home feel warm and inviting:

  • Light candles (safely) or switch on soft lamps in the evening.
  • Bring out blankets and cushions.
  • Make a cosy reading corner.
  • Fill the house with the smell of baking, soup or spices.

The Danish and Norwegian ideas of hygge and kos celebrate exactly this: warmth, comfort and togetherness during the darker months.

Make the most of daylight

As the days shorten, daylight becomes more precious:

  • Go outside in the morning or at lunchtime.
  • Take a walk while it's still light.
  • Sit near a window during the day.

Natural light can help with energy and mood, and it helps keep our body clock in rhythm.

Follow nature's rhythm

In autumn, nature slows down. Leaves fall, animals prepare to rest, gardens go quiet. It's natural for us to want more rest too.

Allow yourself earlier nights, slower evenings and quieter weekends. You don't have to keep summer's pace all year.

Enjoy autumn walks

Autumn is one of the most beautiful seasons for walking: golden leaves, crisp air, misty mornings, the smell of wood smoke. Dress warmly and enjoy the colours while they last.

Warm, seasonal food

Soups, stews, roasted vegetables, apples, pears, warming spices. Autumn food is comforting, and cooking it slowly can be a calming ritual in itself.

Plan small pleasures

Having small things to look forward to can make darker evenings feel special: a weekly film night, a new book, a board game evening, a regular call with a friend.

Take care of your mood

Some people find their mood dips as daylight decreases. Getting outside, staying active and connected, and keeping a regular routine can help. If you notice a lasting low mood in autumn and winter, please talk to a doctor.

A slow autumn evening

Our two-hour video Slow Down, with dark red mountains under a calm sky, is a cosy background for slow autumn evenings:

▶ Watch Slow Down on YouTube

In closing

Embrace the cosiness, soak up daylight, follow nature's slower rhythm, enjoy autumn walks and plan small pleasures. The darker evenings aren't something to endure. They're an invitation to rest.

For gentle habits as the season turns, read Late Summer Light: Gentle Habits for the Change of Season.

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